February 14, 2010

Friends..


Hasn’t the recent fracas between the Sena and SRK taken up enough reams of paper, news reels and web-space? Hasn’t the focus conveniently shifted from more relevant issues?

Anyway, as I wouldn’t like to waste more time on what’s right and what’s wrong? Or what was done for publicity or maybe not. Let me not waste ‘web-space’ on the same topic.

Ever wonder, how you end up being friends with the most unlikely person. No offence to the person, of course, but just that, you wouldn’t have ever thought you would be bosom buddies! There have been friends like that in my life, wherein I have spent 3-4 years with that person being acquaintances, and some common ground throws you together making you the best of friends.

The common ground may be any of the following - the workplace, college, train (!), classes, school and many more. I am back to being ‘more than Orkut/ FB’ friends with my classmates from school, because of a school reunion and am I glad, that happened! Thanks to Ram, of course.. College/ classes buddies tend to stay in contact, considering the fact that you tend to have similar career aspirations. Bitching about the boss, the working conditions, the amount of work, favouritism, the furniture, the Air Conditioner.. the list is endless – wherein you end up finding a patient ear or maybe an impatient tongue.. Now, coming to the train friends – doesn’t the lady who offers you her seat hold a special place? There’s a daily dose of entertainment to be found in the train.. Someone’s birthday gets you a piece of cake (:D) – someone might tell you where you can find the best bags in town!! It’s a veritable (not always) source of information, I tell you – atleast the ladies compartment is.

What I am trying to say is, I am thankful to have all these “kinds” of friends – who make my life, the life it is. Love you all..

10 comments:

PDM (B)LOG said...

Yeah..Kudos to all friends who complete your circle of life...

by the way..Mrids , this post especially on friends coming on a day celebrated for love (universe minus senas) makes my mind to wander on the plausibility of it referring to any special friend :) those traveling not in ladies compartments ofcourse LOL ..pray..tell what are the chances ?
-Rashmi

Anu said...

very rightly said.... you tend to make friends at the most random of places and situations of course apart for our school and college buddies!

Viren Shah said...

Hmmmmmmmm..... True Life is just like journey...... every one comes and meet us.. we share and move with them for few stations but then we depart.. but that few stations are worth cherishing......

Vaidehi said...

Lovely post Mrids! But now u gonna get a new set of friends too, Blog friends- unknown people whom u will come to know through ur blog. Keep blogging!

Maya said...

very nice post Mridu and am glad u mentioned the school reunion :D
def thanks to Ram and Sujith (who co-ordinated but couldn't make it then) and a biiiiiiiiig thanks to all who came :) It was amazing :)

And yes,we do tend to make a set of friends in the ladies compartment; that's one of the big pluses and distinctions of living in Mumbai :)

On a lighter note,you're definitely blessed to have a friend like me ;)

Shubhi said...

This is nicely written, an interesting aspect of friendship touched upon!!
But i must say this doesnt apply to us, because we go a long way back and were never, in my 19 years of life, mere acquaintances~!
:)

shajeela said...

yeah u r rite..according to me workplace buddies r like visit visa..jst visit and if u like tht place visit again otherwise tata bbye...but college or classes buddies r like resident visa..like wherevr v r, we keep in touch or after a long time or long journey like to settle at same place....

Murugesh said...

well said mridzz... i personnel thnk ram alot.. miss all those ex-frnds and love al ma current frndzzz....

and bechari shajee, visa visa kar rahi hai - koi uska dubai ka visa extend kara do

~ M ~ said...

@ Muru - :) aane de na usko India..

@ Shaji - quite true, my dear resident visa ;)

@ Shubhi - Aye, we've been friends for too long.. infact.. all ur life!! :O

@ Maya - I didnt knw abt Sujith ka contri.. ok usko bhi Thanks.. and hey.. ya ya.. I m thankful.. u laugh at all my poor jokes! :D

~ M ~ said...

@ VK - Thanks :)

@ Viren - Trust u to put a philosophical touch to it!! :)

@ Anu - True..

@ Rash - The chances could be high enough.. bt u r thinking too much.. Lol.. The ones who dont travel by the ladies compartment definitely fall under the other categories :D